Days 242-251: Can’t Catch a Break

Piney Narrows Yacht Haven, MD

September 15-24, 2022

After John’s diagnosis of gout, he was on an anti-inflammation diet of with food like chicken and cherry juice while he was avoiding red meat and alcohol. He was on some pretty heavy-duty anti-inflammatories for his wrist. He also was having a lot of gut pain which, naturally, we attributed to the meds. The only problem: when he discontinued the prescription stuff, the pain didn’t go away – in fact, over time, it got worse.

By the night of Friday, September 16, John knew he had to get medical treatment for what he knew was diverticulitis. We took an Uber to a local urgent care who, after a few tests, referred John to the emergency room to get a CAT scan. DIverticulitis can cause absesses which can quickly become septic.

We caught a cab to the ER where after several hours we learned that John did have diverticulitis but it did not require admission to the hospital. He did require an intravenous dose of antibiotics as well as a ten-day regimen of oral antibiotics. And a bland, liquid diet.

Waiting for a diagnosis in the ER

It took a while for the antibiotics to kick in fully. John also had to suffer through eating jello and drinking protein water, soda, and broth. I tried to eat when he wasn’t around!

Slowly he has been able to add food back. We’ve learned a lesson, too, that as soon as he feels a bout of diverticulitis coming on, he should get medical attention.


We’ve only been taking short walks because of John’s discomfort but we realize haven’t been this far north for a really long time. The signs of autumn as well are starting to creep in. I am not a fan.

First leaves changing…
Walking on the “beach” that’s close to the marina

We seem to have been caught in a really windy weather pattern that’s pulled in some cooler air. We’ve been wearing shorts since the middle of February; I’d like to stay in warmer temps (but it’s probably not going to happen).

The wind has been pretty wild for over a week

There have been some pretty sunrises, though, and we’ve enjoyed sleeping with the portlights open.

A gorgeous morning

We’ll be heading to St. Pete Beach soon so I can lead a workshop for a few days – it will be good to go to the warm weather and see some IB friends. John’s feeling much better and only has a few days left on his antibiotics. There’s the potential for a hurricane, but it’s far enough out that we should be fine.

Days 238-241: Cross Island Trail

Piney Narrows Yacht Haven, Kent Island, MD (docked)

September 10-13, 2022

Our marina is very close to the Cross Island Trail that parallels Route 50. This trail is our path to lots of good food and pretty scenery. Since we don’t have a car, we use this trail a lot!

On Saturdays we like to go out to breakfast. There’s a nice coffee shop just over the Kent Island Narrows Bridge. This week they had really delicious individual blackberry pies.

Blackberry pie

The trail crosses a few tidal creek areas; it’s pretty interesting to see how it looks in different weather conditions.

Sunday wasn’t sunny at all

We normally head west but on Monday we went east. The trail here is mostly a wooden boardwalk over tidal marsh.

Monday afternoon

About two miles from our marina is a small park where there are plum trees galore. The fallen fruit is all over the trail and as they rot they emit a slight alcohol fragrance which isn’t terrible.

Wild plums

The fallen plums are apparently very attractive to butterflies.

We decided to grab sandwiches at the gas station on the eastern part of the trail (only the best for us!) before we walked back. I’m not sure I really thought about how many meals we would get at gas stations on our journey, but honestly, we’ve been pleasantly surprised at what we’ve gotten.

Later Monday evening

We did not get a photo of the doe and her fawn who were grazing between the boardwalk and the highway. Luckily when they ran, they ran parallel to the road – the outcome could have been really awful if they ran into the road.

Heading back after dinner

Today is Taco Tuesday so we went west on the trail and got tacos from the counter in a different gas station. Our boat neighbors joined us as we ate al fresco in the parking lot.

Taco Tuesday

These boat neighbors had a boat renaming ceremony on Saturday night – complete with libations for Neptune and Poseidon and a christening with a bottle of bubbly wine. They unveiled their boat’s new name, Gallivant, and we hope they will be blessed with fair winds and following seas.

The name reveal

John’s wrist is slowly getting better. He’s been able to manage the discomfort with Tylenol and Motrin. It’s still not 100% but he’s definitely getting there.

Sunrise on Tuesday

Days 236 & 237: Painting and Leaving

Galesville Harbor Yacht Yard (blocked) to Piney Narrows Yacht Haven (docked)

September 8 and 9, 2022

Yay! The sun is breaking through

John’s wrist felt okay enough for us to paint Lailia’s hull (and the sun came out, too).

Since the paint is high in volatile organic compounds, we made sure to wear protective gear like respirator masks, eye protection and painters’ suits. (The curve of the hull meant that we had to assume some odd positions, too, so we were also protected from getting paint on our clothes and in our hair.)

Everything except what’s under the wood is painted!

We managed to get the hull done, except for the eight places where the wood from the stands was touching the hull. Tomorrow we’ll have those pieces moved so we can touch them up. Once those pieces dry (about 4 hours), Lailia will be able to get back in the water.



The last little bit

The boatyard folks moved the stands first thing this morning so John got out and covered the spots before breakfast.

All done

Four hours later, we were ready splash (although there was no splashing involved). The process is very quick and easy, which seems amazing to me.

Getting back on the water is great – we will not miss using a tall ladder to get on and off Lailia, although we are really proud of our system for hoisting groceries onto the boat with a hook attached to a spring line.

The “grocery hook”
Ready to go

We had following tides as we left Galesville which helped move us right along.

Heading out of Galesville

A beautiful, breezy Friday afternoon is prime time for recreational boats on the Chesapeake, along with the cargo ships that stage here as they wait to go into Baltimore.

It was really busy out on the water today

As always, ospreys are hanging out all over the place.

Maybe letting the wind blow through her feathers?
This one has some dinner

We made it back to our slip long before nightfall and with enough time to Zoom with our younger son who has to work on his birthday tomorrow.

There are still some boat tasks to complete but in the last week we have complete the two largest ones – the survey and the bottom paint.

Moon at the marina

Days 232-235: Best Laid Plans

Galesville Harbor Yacht Yard (on the hard)

September 4-7, 2022

The weather for us has been pretty amazing – we haven’t had very many rainy or drizzly days for most of our adventure. Of course, when we need it to be dry, it rains…

Lailia was hauled out on Friday (when it was sunny and warm). While she was in the straps, she was power washed. Since she was out of the water and this boat yard allows for DIY work, we decided to paint her hull.

Freshly hauled (dark hull)
Power washed except where the straps were

She clearly needed the wash. She also needs another coat of bottom paint. John painted her in 2019.

Under the straps

Prior to painting, Lailia need a light sanding. Since the bottom paint has a very high concentration of copper, a dustless sander needs to be used. We don’t have this technology so we needed to have boatyard folks do this for us.

There was a three-day weekend between when we hauled Lailia and when she could be sanded. The weekend was beautiful, by the way – sunny and warm.

Tuesday started badly. John’s wrist swelled up, got hot, and was very painful. The urgent care doctor diagnosed him with gout, which is pretty uncommon in wrists (it’s usually in toes). John has to take some prescription anti-inflammatories and wear a brace.

Tuesday – swollen, painful wrist
Some wrist support

The weather was also difficult, although not as bad as forecasted. Instead of flash flooding, we had lots of clouds and drizzle.

Tuesday – cloudy as heck

Not much happened with Lailia on Tuesday. John was dealing with his wrist and I did some homework for some professional learning sessions.

Gearing up for a cloudy, drizzly day

John was able to get enough pain relief to allow him to sleep last night – an improvement over the previous night.

Lailia was sanded this morning. Muriatic acid was used to clean stains from the boat hull. The when hosed off the acid interacted with the copper in the oid boottom paint and turns it a funky yellow-green color.

Sanded = muriatic acid drips

To remove the muriatic acid residue, John and I used Dawn dish detergent, lots of water and scrub brushes. This should provide a clean base for the bottom paint.

Washing off the acid
Acid off

We’re hoping for a few things: that John’s wrist continues to heal and that we have some dry weather so we can get the bottom painted. The forecast for tomorrow is much dryer plus pretty comfortable temps. That will make it easier for us to wear the protective gear, although we’ll still be pretty sweaty.

Heavy skies

Days 230 & 231: Hauled Out

Galesville Harbor Yacht Yard (on blocks)

September 2 & 3, 2022

View of the marina area

It was a very quick trip from the anchorage to the yacht yard where we met our surveyor, Curt. Curt spent a few hours checking Lailia’s systems while she was still in the water.

When he was finished with that part, it was time for Lailia to be hauled from the water.

Getting ready to be hauled out
The process

Once we had her out of the water, she was power washed which took off a layer of “stuff” including some barnacles and algae.

On her way to getting power washed (her hull is really dirty)
The part under the straps that didn’t get power washed

Curt inspected Lailia’s hull. We have a through-hull that has to be replaced but everything else looks good. Since we had Lailia out of the water, John decided that we would get her sanded and then we would paint her hull – it’s been about three years since her last painting, so it’s time.

Curt’s a good guy and said that he would loan us a car while we were here; we are also able to stay on Lailia while she is up on blocks. These two things have really been a gift – we don’t have to find a place to stay and pay for Ubers. Curt also took us to a marine supply store and used his professional discount on the hull paint (it’s not cheap).

Staying in Lailia in the yard while she is up on blocks is…an adventure. Each time I climb up or down the ladder, I pretend that I am staying in a treehouse (for some reason). We do have power, so once I am inside our boat, I can forget how high we are.

How we get on Lailia these days
Sigh…

We were able to go to the grocery store today. This part of Maryland is really, really pretty.

This part of Maryland is pretty

Galesville is a small, quiet town with some nice sidewalks, so John and I took an afternoon walk. There’s so many pretty flowers right now.

We have to wait until Tuesday morning to have Lailia sanded so we’ll enjoy our treehouse time for a few more days.

No idea why this sign is here

Day 229: Across the Bay

Piney Narrows Yacht Haven to Galesville, MD (anchored)

September 1, 2022

How wonderful it was to get back out on the water! Because the haul out and inspection are tomorrow, there’s no hurry to get to the anchorage and we can sail.

Heading out of Piney Narrows

Low humidity and bright sunshine made this trip even better.

Beautiful day to be out

We had the mainsail and headsail up pretty quickly. Once the engine was off, we were able to just enjoy the quiet. Not much wind but we had plenty of time to enjoy the ride.

Main and head sails up before the bridge

Winds were pretty variable – sometimes we hardly had any and then we would get to a better spot. We never exceeded 6 knots but it was a nice day out on the water.

Nice tilt
We weren’t the only ones out
Sails up means lots of tacking

This anchorage is very peaceful although there are several marinas nearby. John took the dinghy over to see where we will be hauled out tomorrow – it’s only a few minutes away. The light pollution here is much less than at the marina, so we’ve spent a few minute looking up at the stars.

Anchorage

Days 200 – 228: Hanging Out

Piney Narrows Yacht Club, Kent Island, MD

August 3 -31, 2022

We have spent the month of August in a marina. John has done a lot of boat maintenance (including making new deck hatch covers, washing and sealing the teak as well as changing the oil and filters and repainting the chain markers) and I have done some IB work, both virtually and in-person. The marina has been a great homebase that allows us to focus on tasks rather than travel.

Early August was marked with regular afternoon storms. John and I like watching the clouds come in. The winds pick up and Lailia moves just a tiny bit in this very protected marina.

Storm coming in
How cool is that storm front?
More afternoon clouds

We’ve explored a lot around the marina – the Cross-Island Trail goes right by us. We’ve walked the Ferry Point Trail a few times, but it gets really buggy. The bugs were almost worth it the evening I saw a fox there.

These are around the marina
The view at Ferry Point Park
Cross Island Trail
Cross Island Trail
Cross Island Trail
Cross Island Trail

The view of sunrise is blocked by the covered docks near us but we do get some nice sunsets.

Sunset from Laiiia
A slightly different view of yet another sunset
Ferry Point Park sunset
Sunset clouds
Pretty cool moonrise

A short walk across the Kent Island Bridge takes us to a bunch of restaurants, including a really nice coffee shop, Dessert First, that serves breakfast as well as baked things.

Outside the coffee shop

Our friends Casey and Andy, as well as their dog Frank, have also shared meals with us. There’s even a pretty great taco counter in a gas station that’s about a mile away (right off the Cross Island Trail).

We have decided to stay in this marina for another month. As the weather cools down a little, we’ll take some day trips out in the bay. It’s also nice to have an address where we can receive Amazon packages.

Lailia will need to have an insurance inspection which includes being hauled out of the water so her hull can be viewed so we’ll be heading across the bay to get that done soon.

Days 198 and 199: Apart, Again

John: Piney Narrows Yacht Haven, Kent Island, MD (docked)

Chris: Springfield, VA (hoteled)

August 1 & 2, 2022

The workshop I am leading this week is in a school about 60 miles from the marina, so the organizers have rented a car for me to use. John and I stopped at a grocery store on our way back to the marina and also had lunch.

There’s a lot of traffic in this area. I knew there was but I think I had blocked it.

Traffic is not bad here

This workshop had the potential to be really messy – our hotel rooms and workshop rooms were not set up when we arrived (never a good sign) and most participants had not logged in to the learning management system prior to the workshop.

Fortunately, everything came together when participants arrived. They were really engaged in the work. I appreciate these teachers who drove through lots of traffic over the summer to collaborate with their peers from the surrounding districts. Their students are really lucky to have them.

Workshop participants synthesizing learning

The workshop leaders for this event were definitely international. My dinner companions included folks from Canada, Argentina, and Jordan.

Workshop colleagues

Tomorrow’s drive will be through lots of rush hour traffic, but I know I will enjoy the time. Instead of sitting in an airport I will get an opportunity to unwind and relax (in traffic, of course, but there’s no hurry).

Day 197: Reunited

Piney Narrows Yacht Basin, Kent Island, MD

July 31, 2022

John gave me an orientation of the marina and the area. This is a nice place with some great paved trails nearby so we’ll be able to get outside. There’s also a pool here.

We spent most of the day just hanging out on Lailia. Tomorrow I will be driving to Virginia for another workshop so resting is a top priority.

Afternoon clouds rolling in
Lalia in her slip

Days 190 – 196: Long Time Apart

John: Piney Narrows Yacht Haven, Kent Island, MD (docked)

Chris: Austin, TX (hoteled)

July 24 – 30, 2022

We are a couple who really enjoys each other’s company. For us, being on Laila – all 42 feet of her – is pretty great. We manage to have space apart on the boat when we need it (and we usually don’t need it). I also occasionally need to lead workshops in person, so sometimes we have to be apart.

I left early on July 24th to fly to Austin to lead six days of workshops. John had to single-hand Lailia to her new spot across the bay. John brought Lailia from Florida to Charleston solo when we first bought her, so this is not a big deal for him.

At BWI getting ready to board

Austin is one of our favorite places and we have favorite restaurants there, too. The folks who were in my car cohort either were or became Torchy’s Tacos fans – we managed to eat there 3 times during this trip (including on the way from the airport to the hotel).

An Austin favorite

Our new marina is very close to where our Bahamas friends Casey and Andy have their boat docked. John got to enjoy a cold Bahamian Kalik beer with Andy on Andy’s birthday. John requested that I NOT sing happy birthday to Andy when I called.

Andy’s birthday Kaliks

Workshop leaders in Austin ride to the workshops in car cohorts – we usually make plans with these folks for any extracurricular activities. I was really fortunate that my group and another group had similar interests so we spent a lot of time laughing, eating, and walking around together. (Shout out to Kurt and Lu who drove, as well as Eve, Sabrina, Katie, Jason, and David who are my ride and Torchy’s friends forever).

Lady Bird Lake in Austin
Stevie Ray Vaughn statue in Austin

Several of my Austin peeps had never seen the bats leave from under the Congress Street Bridge – how cool that we happened to be there when there were three flights. This was an entirely unplanned event that started out as a walk after a giant Texas barbecue dinner.

Waitiing for the bats

Maybe the two different worlds we lived in weren’t so different. We saw the same sunset.

S.E. Hinton, The Outsiders

How amazing is sunset? Every day we have a chance to take a couple of minutes to watch the sun go down and reflect on the day (sometimes we are up early enough to watch the sun come up, but not often these days). Even when we are not together, we try to have a sunset moment.

Sunset in Maryland
Sunset over Lake Travis, Austin

Austin has some really great murals. My IB friends and I were able to watch one being painted on a utility box in SoCo – this was a tribute to Joan Means Khabele, the woman who desegregated Barton Springs in 1960, while she was still in high school.



Of course, even though we were in a city, I made sure to look for gifts from Mother Nature. These Muscovy ducks were down a trail that led from the back of our hotel through a nature area with a pond.

It’s strange to consider that I will be going to Lailia on roads I don’t know to a marina I have never been in. We have been so water-based for so long that I have few mental maps of where we are and how to get places.

John will need to orient me to the marina and the area – he has been exploring this week.

Heading home